Thursday, December 25, 2008

up and downs today


We started Christmas day with a shopping tour. I have discovered that shopping is a universally unpleasant experience. For me it doesn't matter where I am I don't enjoy it.

Layla continues to become more alive. Shelley remarked today - "Is this the same kid we adopted." She was laughing and playing a lot today. The challenge has been that she only wants to be held by Shelley and nobody else including me. Up until yesterday we were working great together as a team and now Shelley is carrying all the load and I feel frustrated that I can't help like I would like to. The good news is that this means the attachment process is starting and this type of reaction is normal and will not last forever.

Tonight we had a Christmas celebration with our travel group. One of the guys David has Santa look to him so stood in for us. Last night he was out at the festival and hundreds of people had there picture taken with him. It was an impromptu hilarious experiment by him.

If you want to see the super mom in action check out the video links. We are anxious to get home and be together as a family. The first thing we do every morning is check for comments so thank you for all the encouragement

7 comments:

Jliegel said...

This is the 2nd best Christmas story I've ever seen/heard!

What a visible difference in Layla in just a few days being with you two! And that's just in pictures and video. I can't imagine what she's like "live". Just wait until she meets her big brother and everyone else ready to love on her back home!!

Hang in there Justin. I'm sure she hasn't been around many (if any) men in the orphanage. You can see her looking back at you when she's playing with Shelley. She knows she is blessed to have you as a dad and that you're watching over her already!

Janet

ERutz said...

Justin, Shelley and Layla,

Merry Christmas from the Rutz family.

It's heart warming to see Layla playing with Shelley; not to worry, you'll be taking her to the pool soon enough! We have enjoyed being a part of this journey with you. Seeing God's love in action through you has been a joy. We pray God's blessings om the rest of the journey.

Unknown said...

Justin,

what a perfect christmas...

i cant really put into words how happy i am for your family. i remember you telling me about this journey at our lunch 2 summers ago. i wish you happy and safe travels. we should catch-up soon.

Merry Christmas Wolfenbergs!!!

k woo said...

Oh my gosh, her giggle is precious! Merry Christmas!

Kristin

Susan said...

Wow...what a change! And I second Kim's comment about her giggle! So sweet.

Angela Clinton said...

great to see you doing well. Will be going to airport at 1 and heading your way.

Mark

Mariah said...

Listen to her laugh. What a great Christmas present. Thank you so much for putting yourselves out there to love this little girl who needs you. You are both awesome parents.